S-TY, Texas
In addition, his support of me and validation of my feelings led to the beginning of a recovery for me where I can begin to regain my sense of self. I cannot identify any part of the intensive that was not helpful. The intensive was a combination of both positive and negative experiences. There is peace that comes with gaining the truth, however painful. I received validation that I had learned to suppress, deny and avoid my own sense of self, as well as the ability to listen and respond accurately to my instinct and intuition. I learned that I was being falsely controlled by the dissemination of partial truths from my spouse. I learned that these partial truths were his way of meeting his needs as a sex addict, versus what was in my best interest or the best interest of our marriage. Rather than live a life based on truth and honesty, and consequently making conscious rational decisions based on truth, I was living a life built on deceit and deception in a way that made me feel like I was crazy and foolish for having the feelings I had had for so very long. Now, having the truth, I know I can come from a place where I can learn to trust myself again and hopefully be able to trust and forgive others in the process. We can begin to rebuild our marriage based on a foundation of complete transparency. Should my husband prove unable to stay the course in regards to his recovery plan, I know now that I can move forward with a life for myself built on honesty, integrity and self worth. There are no words to describe how supportive, insightful, and caring [you] were throughout this process. Without [your] presence and guidance, this event in our life would not have happened.
Thank you!"
TY, Texas